For Women under 30, most births occur outside of marriage

The article I read today was called " For women under 30, most births occur outside of marriage." This article was published by two people with the names of Jason Deparle and Sabrina Tavernise. This story is about the increases of births from women under the ages of 30 being born outside of a marriage and how marriages is starting to become uncommon. For example a lady that is twenty-seven is on an on and off relationship where her boyfriend doesn't thinks about marriage at all but the girlfriend does. With saying so, them having differences  may lead to a altercation which will lead to a breakup, leaving the kid with either or parent. People suggest that getting married is already a breakup because for most people, getting married brings new responsibilities to the table and most of the time either or parent can't adjust to the new situation or their just to lazy to take on a new part of life. Also not being married can affect the way the child acts. Children that are mostly born out of marriage tend to act up in school than become a drop out, or have behavior problems and face risks which turns them in the wrong direction like falling into poverty.. I agree but also don't agree because some of my family members was born outside of marriage and didn't succeed far as making it all the way through school. Most of them either ended up sellling drugs or went to jail but the others were brought up in the same lifestyle and are still in school or succeeded in life.  Me being brought up wasn't a hard time. I was raised with both parents and currently is now. Also they had me after they got married and hopefully I will follow the same thing they did. So I prefer the person to get married first then have a kid. If not get married after the son is born. The best thing you would want is for your child to have the best life and that's what my family did for me.